“We learn a lot about Joseph in this one sentence. First, that he is righteous – meaning he cared deeply about honoring God and going God’s way – following His commands. But second, we see his love and compassion for Mary. “Not wanting to disgrace her publicly.”
Understand, that was his heart toward her while he thought she had been unfaithful to him. That’s Godly love. A love that does not ignore what is right and wrong, but is full of mercy, of kindness, of grace even to the guilty. Now, Mary wasn’t guilty, and she’s about to be exonerated, but we’re talking about what’s happening from Joseph’s perspective. He had true love for Mary.
At the same time, Joseph’s Godliness dictated his decisions. Not feelings. Not external pressure.
He obviously loved Mary – he wanted to marry her – but in this situation, the Law of God told him to separate from her and he was willing to do so in submission to God’s way. Godly principles applied with love made Joseph a great man. That’s what helped him navigate difficult days and situations.”
